I know this is a really old thread, but as the [very] unfortunate owner of a Gledhill Boilermate II who has just [successfully] fitted a dual-channel Hive, I thought that I would share my secret:
Apart from live and neutral feeds to the Hive receiver, there are only two N/O connections to the Boilermate to make: hot water and heating. Having disconnected the old [redundant] thermostat wiring, the heating wire goes from the Hive terminal 4 to terminal 10 on the Boilermate... simple! To control the [endless and wasteful] hot water, disconnect the Gledhill store thermostat wire from terminal 4 (a permanent live) on the Boilermate and hard-wire it to terminal 3 on the Hive; you also need to programme the Hive receiver to 'gravity fed' mode (blue light) to ensure that the hot water (store) is on whenever heating is selected. Why? Because otherwise the boiler will not fire and you pump [potentially] cold water from the store around your radiators.
If you have a family who use hot water a lot, then a traditional hot water cylinder or [if you already have one] Gledhill Boilermate are the answer, but if you live alone, or are not big hot water users, then a combination boiler is perfect. How Gledhill got away with selling their horrible contraption is beyond me, and I will ditch it ASAP, but for those who are unfortunate enough to have one, I hope this is useful.