1) When accelerating, reduce throttle pressure a few mph short of your intended speed or you may overshoot the speed.
2) Flooring the throttle will give you "kickdown", where the box will drop down a gear for rapid acceleration
3) In traffic, put it in N or P. Leaving it in D with your foot on the brake wastes fuel and heats the transmission.
4) Use the "lock-down" settings on steep hills and anywhere else you may need to maintain a lower gear. "2" limits you to gears 1 and 2, "3" limits you to 1, 2 and 3 etc.
5) If you want to tow a caravan or heavy trailer frequently, look into getting a transmission fluid cooler.
6) Don't stamp your left foot down on the carpet everytime you want to change gear.
7) Stop by petrol stations slightly more often.
8) Bear in mind that to get from P to D you usually have to go through R, so don't get distracted halfway through or you may have an irate driver behind you in a traffic jam who thinks you are about to reverse.
9) Remember to park it in P, this locks the transmission so if your handbrake goes you still won't move.
Of course this all applies to "traditional" automatics, don't know how it applies to CVTs.