First of all this doesn't look like any RMT230 wiring I have seen
RMT230's usually look like this.
The diagram you posted shows two versions of the Zemismart thermostat, I assume you are referring to the diagram on the left as the one on the right is for electric underfloor heating. If so, the terminals are marked 1 & 2 are for a remote NTC (negative temperature coefficient) thermistor. If you don't need this facility, it can usually be selected out in the settings somewhere.
Not sure about 3 & 4, the instructions say "3/4 Connect to boiler pump" which is rather vague to say the least. If I had to guess I would say they may be a voltage free contact for a combi boiler......but hey who knows, do they not give any further information given about them anywhere?
The remaining terminals which may be the only ones you actually need, depending on how your system is presently wired / configured.
L and N are straight forward
NO is a 'Normally open' contact (used to provide a Live when the thermostat switches 'on' or is calling for heat)
NC is 'Normally closed' (used to provided a Live when the thermostat switches 'off' or is satisfied)
I have never installed one of these type of thermostats, which are not generally seen in the UK so would guess you have purchased it from a non UK website, such as a overseas Amazon site or similar. I am aware of a few folks in the UK who have had difficulties of one sort or another with similar thermostats. I don't know if they managed to get them working in the end or not.