You may well be right in terms of single-phase meters - I certainly can't cite an example which contradicts what you are saying. However, for what it's worth, my 3-phase meter is very different, with the 'neutral in' and neutral out' terminals being the right-most two ...a) I don't think there is an electric meter in the land which has a terminal layout any different to L in, N in, N out, L out.
True, but I don't think that would matter as far as the meter is concerned - all it knows is that there are two conductors (with a pd. between them, and with the same current, in both magnitude and phase going through both), and it doesn't really care which one is closer to truth earth potential.b) Would be worth looking in the CU, yet it would seem polarity is already wring by the time it gets to the meter, so if polarity was restored by the time it gets to the cu, the meter at least would still be connected wrongly.
Are you still seriously entertaining the thought that the DNO may have put a fuse in the neutral of their supply?
Kind Regards, John